Sacred Pulse 

An 8-week spiral of reclamation.


A live, mythic, somatic journey back into your voice … through your desire,

your boundaries,

your pleasure,

& your power.

This is for women who are done performing in sex, shutting down in conflict, overexplaining in love, or freezing when it’s time to speak truth.

In this spiral, your voice becomes a portal.
To healing.
To clarity.
To erotic aliveness.
To the kind of love that starts in your own cells.

We meet Twice a week Live but you follow at your pace and possibility (recordings are available)

We have our own private app & all materials, dates & information is in one clean space.

We move at the speed of safety.
We spiral with intention.
We integrate with care.
This is not emotional flooding—it’s biological repatterning.

What You’ll Walk Away With

✔ A voice that feels safe, sensual, and sovereign


✔ The ability to say “yes” and “no” with clarity—and mean it


✔ A body that no longer braces during sex, love, or visibility


✔ A direct connection to your pleasure, breath, and truth


✔ The courage to speak what you want without shrinking


✔ Community that hears and honors your whole self

The Nervous System Science Behind the Spiral:

This work is rooted in:

Polyvagal theory: voice as a regulator of safety, connection, and pleasure

Somatic voicework: breath, diaphragm, sound, and the vagus nerve

Sacred sexuality: pelvic-voice connection, energetic orgasms, womb work

Trauma-informed integration: titration, pacing, nervous system repair

Mythic archetypes: Echo, Aphrodite, Iris, The Morrigan, Circe, Psyche, and Pythia

We use sound and story as medicine.
We make the invisible: felt.

We give voice to the parts of you that still hold shame, longing, rage, and brilliance.

This is for you if…

  • You shut down in moments of truth, even when you know what you want

  • You’ve done the healing work, but sex still feels disconnected or performative

  • You long for love where you don’t abandon yourself to stay safe

  • You speak well publicly, but feel mute in bed or in conflict

  • You feel the ache of desire—but you’ve lost the sound of it

  • You’re ready for a new kind of leadership—rooted in your body, not just your ideas

Soften into your own rhythm.
Speak the truth your body already knows.

Here, we begin not with what’s broken,
but with what’s yearning to be claimed.
We’re mapping our desires,

listening for the whispers beneath our words,
& tending the soil for transformation.

The Pulse of my Truth:

A little about me…

I’m Nicolette. I’ve been a somatic voice coach for 20 years, a female nervous system guide, and I am a sex + relationship coach through the VITA™ Method.

But more than that I’m a woman who forgot how to hear herself.
For years, I silenced my truth to stay safe in a marriage that didn’t honor me.
I abandoned my body, overgave, and lived from performance instead of presence.
It took illness, heartbreak, and a complete unraveling to remember my own sound.

What brought me back was voice.
Breath.
Pleasure.
And so very much the women who walked with me as I slowly returned to myself.

Now, I guide other women through that same spiral—back into their power, their body, and the sacred pulse of their voice.

How Sacred Pulse came to be…

I was walking in the forest near my house here in France.

The desire to create a life that is truly MINE was so alive. To hear my heart, mine, over the din of obligation, the needs of my children, my partner, the pace I felt I needed to keep.

At one point I stopped. Dropped to the ground & placed my ear to ground. I felt the earth humming under me.

She was so alive in that moment that I could hear her breath, her heart pulsing through me. The beauty of that closeness with HER made everything else go quiet. My heart and her heart could make music. It that pulsed through my body in a way I had never experienced.

Sacred Pulse is a Live 8 week spiral of listening. Collectively we put our ears to the ground to hear:

What our deepest core soul desires are?

What we have come to this earth to do?

What the sound of our wildest desire songs are?

Questions?

Here are some questions I am often asked but feel free to email me or book a call and you can ask it all at your own pace:

  • Yes. Every practice is grounded in nervous system pacing specifically for female physiology which functions completely differently from men, consent & choice, and co-regulation (oxytocin regulation over dopamine all the way (“,))!

  • No. This is not about being loud. It’s about being true. No vocal training required. We do vocal exercises for the purpose of getting to know a sound unaffected by a lifetime of conditioning and adaptation - but singing with more joy is definitely a happy side effect!

  • Both. That’s the point. Your voice is a sexual organ. Your sexual expression is shaped by your ability to speak, breathe, and be fully felt. Having beautiful deep intimate sex is in direct proportion to your ability to find and speak your deepest truth.

  • Yes! This work has shifted women’s marriages, dating patterns, boundaries, and self-respect. When we honor ourselves, when we find the sacredness in our time, our bodies and our voices the whole world benefits!

🌹 Apply Now

Apply for Sacred Pulse and step into a spiral where your voice becomes the doorway back to your body, your desire, and your deepest truth.