Welcome to the Sacred Site is YOU.
Sexual Wellness for Women's Bodies
SACREDsite™ is a return to reverence for the body of womankind.
Through hands-on pelvic and womb care, paired with voice and expressive work, we witness tissue remember how to release, cycles find their rhythm again, pleasure and sensation return, and the whole woman come home to her body.
Twenty years ago I started this work.
Along the way, I found my own way back to the sacredness of my body, my choices, and the validity of my own voice.
This work reaches the whole of you.
Your womb, your ovaries, your vulva, your cervix, your belly, and the breath that moves with all of them. Your menstrual health. Your fertility. The whole cycle of a woman's body. Here we care for it as one living system, not a list of separate symptoms.
This reaches your voice too. Your jaw, your throat, your tongue. Voice reclamation happens from a deeply somatic and safe place.
It reaches sexual awakening.
Held in reverence, moving slowly at the pace of your own body.
A gentle accompaniment. A deeply consensual journey, from the first moment to the last.
There is so much exquisite pleasure available to you. So much resourcing, so much wellness, waiting in the body you already have.
Nearly one in five hysterectomies performed are unnecessary.
Nearly half of women live with menstrual pain. More than half live with pelvic pain. Vaginismus, the body closing itself against touch, goes widely undiagnosed.
One in ten women say they have never orgasmed, not once, in their life.
Nearly eight in ten sexual assaults are never reported.
Women stay silent about so much that has happened to their bodies. Here, we give the body an opportunity to express itself.
What does it mean for something to be sacred?
According to the dictionary, sacred means worthy of care beyond the ordinary.
Isn't your body worthy of care beyond the ordinary? Beyond your obligatory gynecologist appointment, beyond a generic massage?
Isn't the creativity locked inside your body worthy of its fullest expression?
Isn't the power locked in your lungs, your heart, your mind, and your voice worthy of care beyond the ordinary?
To reclaim our bodies as sacred is to take back our power, and put it toward creating and honoring the life that is available to us.
I do this work because I believe this world desperately needs a resurrection of the sacred in women's health and position in our society. A resurrection of reverence for the immense power of our bodies and the validity of our voices, voices too long silenced, doubted, or spoken over. We need our collective consciousness to remember our intrinsic connection to, and creation of, LIFE.
I am here to tend to your tissues, woman. To your body, at every single stage and threshold of womanhood. I am here to support your sexual thriving, your body as the altar of your creations. I am here to support your fertility and your capacity to conceive. I am here to nourish your heart, your soul, and your pelvis, as you carry life forward. I am here to connect you with the memory in your bones, that you can birth in full power and agency, that you can mother with the wisdom that comes from a nourished womb, and speak with the fullness of a voice that is finally your own.
I hold this reverence for womanhood, and I hold that same reverence for every experience of being in a body with a vulva, whatever your gender identity, binary, non-binary, or anywhere between. Your body carries an immense capacity for creation, for exquisite pleasure and power, held always in safety, irrespective of how you move through the world, and I honor that fully. Your womb is eternally creative. And when a womb has been removed, its energetics remain, eternal still, and you remain entitled to this same level of ceremonial care. I am here to remind your body that no trauma or pain it has held needs to define your life any longer. You are entitled to receive a level of reverential care for your womanhood that will eventually touch every single person you come into contact with. Because when you are truly, profoundly WELL, your whole ecosystem transforms. Your work, your creativity, your children, your community, and the larger world, all of it becomes more whole when the sacred has been restored to your body.
The sacred site is you.
Let’s offer you the reverence your body craves:
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SACREDsite™ Voice Sessions
Online or in person. The anatomical, emotional, and psychological work of setting your voice free. The sound of it, the feeling of it, the experience of it.
Learn to de-armour your voice, jaw and tongue so you start to sound like YOU and own your space.
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SACREDsite™ Sexology Sessions
Rewriting your sex story. A deep de-armouring process, coming home to a body where you feel safe, and where you feel exquisite pleasure. Discover new ways of orgasm. Uncover why the numbness or sensitivity is there. Start a self-pleasure practice that de-armours your heart and your full pleasure body.
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SACREDsite™ Whole Woman Ceremonial Pelvic Care
In person, in the south of France. One-day, three-day, or five-day retreats. A whole body de-armouring and awakening: womb, ovaries, vulva, cervix, belly, back of body, glutes. A ceremony for your body to be fundamentally reclaimed, heard, felt, and awakened.
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SACREDsite™ Group Retreats France
A pilgrimage to pleasure in the lands of Mary Magdalene. We go to the cave, and we reclaim our voices, our sensuality, and our power. Sensual cooking, whole woman pelvic care, deep de-armouring of our voices, our hearts, and our bodies as women, in sisterhood, connected around the lineages of the rose. A profound pilgrimage to yourself.
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SACREDsite™ for Healers
Reclaiming your voice and your power as a practitioner online, after twenty years working as an independent coach, and leading sales for Layla Martin and some of the giants in the industry of sexuality, therapy or other domains censored online.
A collective and support space, with deep guidance on feeling safe and fully seen in your brilliance. Know what to post and why and making sales as a true service to humanity.
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Podcast, Books & Free Gifts
The Sacred Site Is You podcast. Sacred Work on Substack. Books I've been part of, and my upcoming The Little Book of Falling in Love with Your Voice, join the waitlist. Free resources: vaginal steaming, vaginal mapping, de-armouring, vocal & laryngeal self-massage, and more.
Hi, I’m Nicolette.
I’m a Somatic Vocal & Sexual Healing Coach. At the heart of everything I do is this belief that when we reclaim our bodies, our time & our voices, we find our joy, vitality & power.
It is only when we honor our time here on earth as sacred, that we learn to make love to it!
A conversation with me, one on one, where we assess where you are and create your own voice-sexuality blueprint, a clear picture of what's calling to be reclaimed in your voice and your body, and where to begin.
To get your work seen you need support. We meet every single Monday over multiple timezones and do just that.
Algorithm Magic is a 70 member strong Collective where we support help each other get visible on Instagram.
Within the first weeks of joining your views go up to 1000 or more and engagement ticks up right way so your posts get pushed.
We do our magic on the algorithm through co-working, bringing consistency & engagement strategies.
Healers getting visible.
33€ a month.
7 Session 1:1 SACREDsite™ Voice Journey
A Free Voice is your birthright.
Through a combination of Somatic Voice, Integrated Sexuality practices, Parts Work & the linguistic finesse, the sound of your voice transform.
Your voice becomes visceral and alive, and from the deepest most intuitive part of your psyche you learn to speak that LANDS.
Your VOICE is the gateway to making a living as a healer.
Here we awaken your full erotic aliveness & vocal freedom while gently integrating past trauma:
So you can free up energy & space for wildly beautiful relationships & the fullness of your life purpose.
Upcoming Pilgrimages, Retreats & Masterclasses
The pilgrimages to meet with Mary Magdalene is always a gentle but confronting experience. To me my encounters with her has been deeply touching & the ripples of her message continue to vibrate through my life, touching every aspect of my life. We ground in feminine ritual, vocal freedom, beautiful sisterhood & luscious food. Cannot wait to meet you and invite you into HER world.
The Magdalene Oracle Book
“The Magdalene Oracle” was written in collaboration with 20 other veritable priestesses and guides & became an instant BESTseller. We poured our hearts & hopes into this book that I hope will fill you with inspiration & a whole new vision of womanhood. A beautiful way to encounter a different vision of an archetype & frequency we all know & can derive great strength from. Mary Magdalene is my muse and guide & I regularly host retreats & pilgrimages here in the South of France where legand has it, Mary Magdalene lived out the last 30 years of her life.
“This book is a love letter to women. To all the women waking up to their power & beauty & spiritual wisdom.””
Your truth is essential. Your voice so needed. Fall in love with every part of you, so that that love can ripple out to everyone that come in contact with you.