Speak from your Body,
Live from your Pleasure.
🔥 Book Your Free Desire Mapping Session
This 1:1 call is your entry point into Sacred Pulse—a live, high-touch, eight-week journey into nervous system regulation, voice reclamation, and living from pleasure.
We’ll explore where you're holding back, what you're truly longing for, and whether this program is the right fit for where you are right now.
Hello gorgeous!
If you're here, chances are you’ve already done some kind of inner work.
Therapy. (Sooo much! Me tooo sister!!)
Somatics. (Realized that some of those exercises are just more ways to bypass my stuff.)
Trauma healing. (Granted, some sessions were beautiful..)
But something is still off.
When anxiety hits it still feels overwhelming.
Depression knocks every so often.
Sex feels kinda bla but sometimes fine.
You have dreams of creating your business & showing your FULL self online, but it feels far, far away.
Your nervous system keeps pulling you back into old loops. Old patterns. Old stuff thats gotta go.
Sacred Pulse is where that begins to change. This program is my passion project after 20 years of practice, personally (what a ride!) & professionally (my soul contract in this lifetime)
This isn’t mindset work. It’s systematic & devoted body rewiring—through voice, pleasure, and real-time nervous system re-patterning with a grounded, scientific approach.
This is for you if:
You feel like your body shuts down when you try to express yourself.
You want to feel more connected to your femininity & sexuality but not through performance or “techniques.”
You crave a space that’s both scientifically grounded and emotionally transformative. Not just woo & fluff & “being in the energy”.
You’re done with vague advice—you want something that actually changes your life.
You want to heal your trauma & know therapy can only take you so far.
Safety feels imperative when you imagine opening the pandora’s box what you want to heal
Feeling fully alive & well on a day to day basis is your goal.
Did you know your voice and your sexual organs mirror one another?
Anatomically, they’re made of nearly identical tissue.
They’re both governed by our extraordinary vagus nerves helping us regulate our nervous systems.
They’re both designed to open and vibrate when the body feels safe.
And they’re both profoundly shaped by trauma, silence, shame…and joy.
That’s why in Sacred Pulse, we don’t separate voicework from sexuality.
We don’t treat your body like it's a collection of parts.
We work with the whole system…your real, living, breathing body-mind…where your sound, your pleasure, your rage, your longing, and your truth are all connected.
Because here’s the thing:
You can’t reclaim your voice without reclaiming your body.
And you can’t reclaim your pleasure without feeling safe enough to speak.
This is what I call somatic sexual vocal rewiring: a practice that’s part art, part science, and fully devoted to helping you come back into your body after years of shutdown, disconnection, or pretending.
This isn’t performative.
This isn’t about trying to sound pretty or be more orgasmic.
This is about coming home to yourself.
Slowly. Gently. Powerfully.
Imagine waking up and not overriding your needs.
Speaking up with clarity instead of fawning or freezing.
Being able to feel—not just in safe little moments—but throughout your daily life.
Feeling your own pleasure—not for someone else, but because you’re finally available to receive it.
That’s what we practice in Sacred Pulse.
What Sacred Pulse Is:
An 8-week, high-touch, combined 1:1 & small-group program designed to help women:
Regulate their nervous systems through integrative voice and pleasure practices.
Change the sound of their voices as their bodies become safer, freer, and more alive.
Rebuild self-trust, confidence, and body-based clarity around their deepest desires.
Heal the invisible patterns that have kept them quiet, anxious, or disconnected for years.
We meet for two 1:1 sessions as well as live twice a week: deep archetypal and somatic practice, vocal nervous system work & pleasure practices. Replays are always available. The group is small by design—intimate enough for every woman to be seen and supported.
You’ll also get bonus classes on:
How to use yoni eggs, glass wands, and voice to map your internal landscape.
The science of female nervous system regulation and why standard somatic tools often fail us.
The role of the voice in sexual healing and why reclaiming your sound is the key to deeper pleasure & sensual confidence.
What Sacred Pulse Is Not
This is not couples therapy.
It’s not about learning tricks to fix your sex life. (although most of the time it’s a very happy side-effect!)
It’s not conflict resolution or communication hacks.
This is for you.
It’s about coming home to your own body. To your own truth.
Its learning to trust your own intuition so you can speak from deep inner certainty.
It’s about allowing your gifts to come online & paving a path for your gifts to come online.
It’s about slowly repatterning your relationship to pleasure, self worth & attachment patterns.
It’s about letting go of the survival patterns that have shaped your voice, your sex, your identity.
Over 8 weeks, learning how to speak and live from your own felt truth.
Why Book a Desire Mapping Session?
Most people think they need more clarity, more confidence, or more strategy.
But what they really need is permission to want what they want…and a body that can hold it.
That’s what this session is for.
This isn’t a “sales call.”
This is where we begin to map your unique nervous system patterns, emotional landscape, and the desires you may not have said out loud yet.
It’s a co-created experience, grounded in science and care.
In your Desire Mapping Session, we’ll explore:
What’s pulling at you beneath the surface (even if you can’t name it yet)
Where your nervous system is looping in old patterns…and how to begin unwinding them
How your voice and pleasure are linked, and how to begin using them to rewire your life
Whether Sacred Pulse is the right space for you right now
You don’t need to show up perfect or prepared.
You don’t even need to know what you want yet.
You just need to be willing to get curious.
Your body holds the map. I’ll help you read it.
Ready to begin?
👉 [Book Your Free Desire Mapping Session Here]
This is where we start. No pressure & No commitment ( I am an introvert at heart & completely get that booking this call is a big deal!). This is just a chance to speak your desire out loud..and see if Sacred Pulse is the right next step.
Hi, I’m Nicolette!
I’m a somatic vocal coach and sex and relationship guide with over 20 years of experience in voice, nervous system healing, and integrative female sexuality.
My work is rooted in science and my own lived experience & definitely not in performance or perfection. (Anyone who knows me wholeheartedly confirm: Just this weekend I dropped my phone in a river while out kayaking with my kids…more into swaying on a boat, feet in the water & the sun on my skin than ice baths & longevity hacks (or tracking where my phone lands).
I trained for over a decade with renowned voice teacher Kristin Linklater. I’ve studied female nervous system repair through Taoist, Tantric & Polyvagal frameworks. I’m a certified sex and relationship coach through Layla Martin’s VITA™ method. And for the past few years, I’ve helped women reclaim their voices, reconnect with their pleasure, and speak from their full truth—without overriding their bodies.
But this work isn’t just what I teach. It’s what saved me.
After a long, sex-less & silencing marriage, the collapse of my health & identity, I rebuilt my life from the inside out: through somatic sound, breath, truth, and desire. That’s what Sacred Pulse was born from: a deep knowing that our voice and our pleasure are not extras. They are vital signs. They are the canaries in the coal mines, indicating when we are losing touch with our sacred pulse.
I created this program for women who are ready to finally speak from their bodies and live from their pleasure. Not in theory but in real, embodied, lasting change.
If this resonates with you, I’d love to meet you!
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How Sacred Pulse came to be…
I was walking in the forest near my house here in France & I lived a poetic (perhaps even a little mystical) moment:
The desire to create a life that is truly MINE was very alive in me. The desire to hear my heart over the din of obligation, the needs of my children, my partner, the pace I felt I needed to keep. I deeply wanted share more of my work with the world but 1:1 sessions or retreats can only take us that far & I was trying to figure out how to make this medicine digestible and powerful in a group format.
So at one point I stopped. Dropped to the ground & placed my ear to ground.
I felt the earth humming under me.
She was so alive in that moment that I could hear her breath, her heart pulsing through me. The beauty of that closeness with HER made everything else go quiet. My heart and her heart made music. It pulsed through my body in a way I had never experienced before.
Then I knew: Collectively we have to put our ears to the ground to hear:
What our deepest core soul desires are?
What we have come to this earth to do?
What the sound of our wildest desire songs are?
We have to hear each other’s stories and recognize ourselves in them.
We have to do our practices together and remember our power together.
We have to reinforce our belonging, love and acceptance together over a long period of time to repattern consistenly.
Questions?
Here are some questions I am often asked but feel free to email me or book a call and you can ask it all at your own pace:
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Yes. Every practice is grounded in nervous system pacing specifically for female physiology which functions completely differently from men, consent & choice, and co-regulation (oxytocin regulation over dopamine all the way (“,))!
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No. This is not about being loud. It’s about being true. No vocal training required. We do vocal exercises for the purpose of getting to know a sound unaffected by a lifetime of conditioning and adaptation - but singing with more joy is definitely a happy side effect!
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Both. That’s the point. Your voice is a sexual organ. Your sexual expression is shaped by your ability to speak, breathe, and be fully felt. Having beautiful deep intimate sex is in direct proportion to your ability to find and speak your deepest truth.
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Yes! This work has shifted women’s marriages, dating patterns, boundaries, and self-respect. When we honor ourselves, when we find the sacredness in our time, our bodies and our voices the whole world benefits!
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Apply for Sacred Pulse and step into a spiral where your voice becomes the doorway back to your body, your desire, and your deepest truth.